About Adam

Just a guy who decided his family was the mission. Business is the tool.

Christian. 18-year Air Force veteran. Husband to Raquel. Dad of three amazing kids. Entrepreneur. Building something that actually lasts.

The Moment That Changed Everything

"Daddy, Daddy,
don't leave again!"

I was still in the Air Force. My oldest son was about three years old. I had been traveling constantly. Always gone, always on mission, always away from home. One evening I stepped outside to take the trash out.

He came running after me, arms out, yelling those words. He was so used to me leaving that he assumed every time I walked out the door, I wasn't coming back.

It hit me like a brick wall.

I was serving my country, doing exactly what I had committed to do. But my son didn't understand mission sets and deployment cycles. He just knew his dad was absent too often. That moment forced me to ask a question I couldn't ignore: How do I build a future where my family doesn't have to wonder when I'm coming home?

That was the spark. Not a business idea. Not a financial goal. A three-year-old boy who thought his dad was always leaving.

"Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward."

— Psalm 127:3

Adam with his kids

The Full Story

18 years of service. A lifetime of lessons.

I spent 18 years in the United States Air Force. I served as both an enlisted member and an officer across multiple career fields. Military life teaches you discipline, resilience, and how to lead under pressure. Until I entered entrepreneurship, it shaped everything about how I thought, how I operated, and how I led my family.

But military life also has a way of pulling you away from the people who matter most. I had the unique experience of being a military spouse, homeschool dad, and entrepreneur while Raquel finished her own Air Force career. We navigated transcontinental moves, deployments, and living in separate houses due to military orders. Through all of it we stuck together.

After that moment with my son I knew I needed to build a different future — one that wasn't built around someone else's schedule and mission set. I started investing, learning, and building while still in uniform. By the time I got out I wasn't starting from scratch. I was already building.

I went from living paycheck to paycheck to owning hundreds of doors in real estate, acquiring multiple businesses, and helping others do the same. But the goal was never a number. The goal was time: time with Raquel, time with my kids, time that no deployment or mission could take away.

"For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?"

— Mark 8:36

At a Glance

Faith

Christian — the foundation of every decision

Military

18 years — U.S. Air Force, enlisted and officer

Family

Husband to Raquel. Dad of three stellar kids.

Location

Florida

When I'm not working

Golfing with the kids, LEGO Marvel sets, cross-country road trips

Adam La Barr
Adam and Raquel La Barr

The Woman Behind It All

If it weren't for Raquel, I'd still be living paycheck to paycheck.

Raquel and I have been partners through thick and thin. Transcontinental moves. Deployments. Living in different houses because of military orders. We've faced the kind of challenges that break most couples and we came out stronger every time.

She grew up watching money being saved and stored away; a mindset shaped by her mother's experience growing up in Cuba. I grew up like most military members: spending everything I made. It took someone like her to challenge the way I thought about money and help me see the bigger picture.

She rewired my mindset. I introduced her to investing rather than just saving. That exchange changed everything. We went from two people surviving on military pay (or really one person saving well and one person spending well) to building a portfolio together that neither of us could have imagined alone.

We're not just resilient. We're anti-fragile and we enjoy embracing every challenge as an opportunity to grow stronger. Growing together. Raising our kids together. Building businesses together.

"Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another."

— Proverbs 27:17

Why The BizDad

Too many dads are chasing the scoreboard and leaving their families behind.

I started The BizDad Podcast to connect with other dads who were balancing business and fatherhood well (and admit when they weren't), guys I could learn from and trade ideas with. But the more conversations I had, the more I saw the same pattern everywhere.

Business-owning dads making the same mistake as military dads. Telling themselves they were building for their family while slowly becoming strangers to them. Chasing success but measuring it in the wrong currency.

I wasn't interested in just making money. I wanted to build something that included my family. I wanted my kids to grow up knowing what I was building and why. I did not just want them seeing a dad who was always busy.

I'd rather have a $10 million business and a thriving family than a $100 million empire and a broken home.

That's why The BizDad exists. To help dads build great businesses without sacrificing their families. To prove that you can win at both.

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The Blog

130+ episodes worth of real talk.

Every post is repurposed from real conversations about business, fatherhood, faith, and everything in between.

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